Hello Beautiful reader, I am sure you have been busy getting ready for a groovy and merry Xmas even in the face of recession lol! Well, I actually had another agenda to blog about today until a thought came through and changed the whole thing. Like you know ,MzTikworldofmore is a world of its own with everything eyes can read and all ears can hear (did I hear you say "before nkor").
There are some things I notice that is worrisome to me, and I feel as a lady,its high time we adjust before 2017 catches up with us....end of the year resolution. I would share a few "not lady-like" things of such:-
- DO NOT PICK: some ladies are in the habit of nose picking in public, well strangely I do not know why my eyes had to keep stumbling on a few ladies recently and I wondered is this some new trend?LOL certainly not but I am sure an unconscious attitude. We need to learn to be very conscious of our environment because you do not know who is watching and even at that you can be private about it because it really can be disgusting. Also some ladies are in the habit of pressing pimples building a population on their faces. I do not get comfortable when some ladies offer to pluck out on your behalf -in public. I guess I am not the only one that finds that a little irritating, am I?
- DO NOT REVEAL: as ladies we certainly love to celebrate ourselves as much as confidence comes from within but I think there should be a limit when you have issues with your skin. A lady with a damaged skin or aches all through to the shoulder will proudly wear a halterneck or off shoulder outfit. It is a choice and may involve personal comfort but I will suggest its kept covered especially depending on the gathering you will find yourself in the midst of. On the other hand some ladies with bleached skin that has caused damage or outrageous stretch marks will be revealing the exact locations of what should be covered.It is a turn off for some people especially guys because your appearance goes a long way to speak volume about you and honestly that's how I see it to be.
- DO NOT NAIL BITE: it is a funny sight to behold I must say and many of us are guilty of that. Asides the fact that its not healthy using your teeth when you can as well us a nail cutter, blade or what is relatively appropriate: it is not lady like to do that more so in public. It also has physical health effects that can lead to infections as well as bad shape construction.
It is safer to chew a gum, that sounds more like it.
- DO NOT CHEW LOUDLY: I m guilty of this. I tend to chew gum loudly when i just want to be rebellious or disturb my family especially because I know they dread it so much. I would not say am seeking attention per say but good news is that I dropped the habit even though I never really did that in public but on the contrary a lot of ladies do. It doesn't only disturb the peace of those around but it gives a lousy impression and makes one constitute a nuisance. If you tend to forget yourself in public comportment a lot then its better to munch on something else or get involved in health conversations if you've got company.
The holidays are here and it's an opportunity to relax, mingle and have fun which means most of us will be around a lot of people especially if its been a long time you caught up with each other or had a girls' hangout, a reunion etc. Whatever the case maybe, it is important to have a good sense of comportment and presentation.
I hope you enjoyed this piece and found it applicable one way or the other. Please feel free to drop a comment or suggestion as well, keep them coming in☺😍
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